Not Home Yet


What happens when you find something good enough to stop for? In Numbers 32, two tribes found land they loved — and nearly walked away from everything God was still doing. We’re asking more than is it good, but Is it all that God has called us to?

This September 6, 2026 message calls us to more than small groups and into ministry. We develop our faith in groups for the purpose of deploying it in the world . . . for the purpose of the Gospel.

Growing up, my dad was a puzzle guy. We had a formal dining room attached to our living room. He kept a puzzle of some kind on the table most of the time. We only used the table as a table for food a couple times a year. The rest of the time, it was a puzzle table. Dad used it to engage us in conversations. You’d sit down just to put a couple pieces in and then end up talking to each other. It was a ctually a pretty genius “dad move.” We did lots of 1,000-piece puzzles, and on more than one occasion, there’d be at least one missing piece when we finished.

Have you been there? It’s the worst. You get all the way to the end. You can see the whole picture. You know exactly what it’s supposed to look like. But there’s still that one empty space. It’s exactly the opposite of that satisfying feeling of pushing that last piece into its perfectly-sized hole.

The puzzle is good. You can still see the picture. But it’s incomplete. And that’s true of more than puzzles. Maybe it’s a pair of socks that isn’t a pair anymore.

It’s good… but something is missing.

Good, but incomplete.

What happens when we settle for something like this? What if it’s really good?

Could we become so satisfied that we stop before God is finished?

The greatest danger isn’t always choosing bad. Sometimes it’s settling for good.

And today, we’re going to see exactly that happen in Numbers 32.

And before we’re finished, I’m going to connect this story to something I’ve been thinking a lot about—our discipleship ministry and our small groups here at Brazos Pointe.

Because I believe we’ve got something good.

But I also believe God is calling us to make sure we don’t stop there.

But first, let’s rewind:

This is the Mediterranean Sea, and here’s the Promised land. This is where God’s people lived for a little while, until a famine moved them to Egypt where they became slaves. After 400 years, God sent Moses and the ten plagues and they escaped by crossing through the Red Sea to the Sinai Peninsula. Then, they crossed over into the wilderness and sent spies into the promised land. The spies came back discouraging the people from going there, because they were scared. They actually complained saying they would have been better off just dying in the desert. So, because of their distrust in God, He tells lets them have it their way. So for forty years they wander. . . until that generation dies off.

By the time we reach Numbers 32, Israel is east of the Jordan. An entire generation has died in the wilderness. Israel has fought significant battles with King Sihon of the Amorites and King Og of Bashan. Now they are standing on the edge of the Promised Land.

When we join the story here in Numbers 32, they are on the verge of taking possession of the land God promised them.

Listen to how the chapter begins:

Numbers 32:1-5

The Reubenites and Gadites, (that’s two of the 12 tribes of God’s people) who had very large herds and flocks, saw that the lands of Jazer and Gilead were suitable for livestock. So they came to Moses and Eleazar the priest and to the leaders of the community, and said  (a bunch of cities) 4 ‘the land the Lord subdued before the people of Israel—are suitable for livestock, and your servants have livestock. If we have found favor in your eyes,’ they said, ‘let this land be given to your servants as our possession. Do not make us cross the Jordan.’

These verses are an example of settling. They know they aren’t in the Promised Land yet. But they’re looking around and thinking: “This looks pretty good.” It’s good for animals and we have animals. We could call this place “Home.” Let’s just stay here.

Their request wasn’t openly sinful or rebellious. They may have even believed God led them there. The land was good.

The land wasn’t the problem. Stopping there was.

They had found something good… And they were ready to stop. But their story wasn’t finished.

And sometimes that’s exactly what we do. We find something comfortable.

Something satisfying.

and we assume it must be the place where we’re supposed to stop.

But what does God say?

Listen to Moses in verses 6b and 7:

“Should your fellow Israelites go to war while you sit here? Why do you discourage the Israelites from crossing over into the land the LORD has given them?”

Whoa. Hold up. Discouraging? I don’t think that thought about that at all. It didn’t seem like that big of a request.

But Moses sees it differently.

He doesn’t just hear what they’re asking.

He sees what could happen if they get it.

Moses immediately takes them back forty years—to  the spies, to that generation’s unbelief. Only two men followed the Lord wholeheartedly: Joshua and Caleb.

Moses is afraid Reuben and Gad are about to repeat history. Not necessarily because they don’t believe in God. Not because they’re openly rebelling. But because they’re willing to let everyone else continue the mission while they settle down.

Moses sees they’re forgetting something:

The only reason this land is even an option is because the other tribes helped conquer it. All of God’s people were responsible for winning those battles. They had already received something good because everyone had worked together. And now it sounds like they’re asking to skip out on the rest of the mission. They see that they could be happy where they are, and they want to stop short of the goal. (examples?)

Moses also recognizes how much this would discourage the other tribes.

He remembers the spies.

He remembers what happened when a few people discouraged everybody else.

Be careful. Complacency is contagious.

Do you remember school group projects? One person says, “I’m not doing my part.” Suddenly everyone else feels the same freedom. “Well, if he’s not doing his part…” Before long, the whole group is united — not around accomplishment. Around laziness.

And that’s funny when we’re talking about homework or yard work.

It’s not funny when we’re talking about God’s mission.

Because your passivity can become someone else’s permission.

Moses is saying: don’t stop here — you can’t skip out on the mission. God has more for us. He isn’t finished.

Thankfully, Reuben and Gad listen.

Look at verse 16:

“Then they came up to him and said, ‘We would like to build pens here for our livestock and cities for our women and children. But we will arm ourselves for battle and go ahead of the Israelites until we have brought them to their place Go to Verse 18 We will not return to our homes until each of the Israelites has received their inheritance.’”

Not home yet? Keep going! Not because the land wasn’t theirs. Because the mission wasn’t finished.

That’s a different posture — they don’t abandon the mission, they commit to it.

And notice: They’re not going home until everyone else receives their inheritance. It’s not one battle.

It’s a campaign

a long, sustained effort.

Risk to their lives.

Faithfulness over time.

Moses hadn’t completely rejected their request.

but his response had reshaped it.

Their original plan was good.

But, as Moses pointed out, it was incomplete.

Now look at verse 20-22:

Then Moses said to them, ‘If you will do this—if you will arm yourselves before the LORD for battle and if all of you who are armed cross over the Jordan before the LORD until he has driven his enemies out before him—then when the land is subdued before the LORD, you may return and be free from your obligation to the LORD and to Israel.’

Before we go any further, let me say it plainly:

Their land was good. Their families were good. But those things weren’t more important than God’s mission — and I gotta be honest. I let those things get in the way of God’s mission all the time.

But God wasn’t finished yet, and they chose to follow God wholeheartedly — whatever it cost, for as long as it took.

Now, I tell you this story for a reason.

You see, I’ve been struggling with something that feels incomplete to me too.

A few months ago, I woke up and knew it was God. I wrote down my thoughts before they were lost in the fog of sleep. I was imagining standing before you, right here on this stage. This is what I wrote:

I’ve got to apologize to you. When I look back at the ways I’ve spoken about small groups, I’ve tried to appeal to your felt needs – your sense of needing other people in your lives. I’ve spoken about the benefits of community, the strength and support we find in community. Here at BPF, we use the words, Bible study, community, and care to describe our groups . . . and all of that is still true. It’s just incomplete. Small groups and community do benefit us, BUT . . . ultimately that’s not what it’s about. Although we miss it all the time, the world doesn’t revolve around us and our needs. It’s about God. It’s about His mission to reach the world. It’s about the “Great Commission.” Go and make disciples of all nations. Baptize them. Teach them to obey.” If our small group gatherings end in us, we’re missing the point. If we think we’ve arrived simply because we’re being satisfied and growing fat and happy in our groups, we’re wrong. (We’re not home yet either.) Small groups are NOT about us. It’s always about God and others. It’s not even about being disciples. It’s about becoming disciple makers.

If you’re a Christ Follower and you’re in it for you or some benefit you can get for yourself, something is off. You’re worshipping yourself. We don’t come to Him or obey Him just for the blessings. We do it because He is worthy—because He knows what’s best for us and is always in our corner. We do it because He is good—so good.

We’ve got a missing piece in our puzzle. Small groups are good, but we can’t settle there.

We’re not home yet.

Good isn’t always complete.

And this isn’t new for Brazos Pointe — from the beginning, we’ve believed church is bigger than us. It’s about God.

His glory.

His purposes.

His mission.

Our neighbors.

The nations.

The next generation.

And that’s why I think this passage matters so much.

We gather together and develop our faith for a purpose—so we can deploy it.

We gather. We grow. So we can be sent.

We gather to grow, so we can go.

Not to earn God’s love — we already have it. Going is simply Him inviting us into what He’s already doing.

Growing without going is incomplete.

If you’re in a group for your own benefit, you’re standing where Reuben and Gad stood—good land, rightly desired. It’s helping you grow. It’s giving you support. That’s not wrong. Your desire for that land is well-placed.

But don’t stop there.

If our time in small groups ends in us, we’re missing the point.

My hope is that today you’ll hear this message as a loving voice calling you to something more.

Our groups are intended to equip us so we can be sent.

That’s the point. Not the growth, but the going.

Develop your faith so you can deploy it.

We gather to grow, so we can go.

And think about Moses’s fear.

He feared their choice would endanger everyone else’s pursuit of God’s best.

The same is true for us.

If we decide to be satisfied in our small group—to gather and grow without going—we run the same risks.

Here’s what that looks like:

Maybe your group has been together for years, and you’ve gotten so comfortable that nobody new can really break in.

Maybe everyone knows the Bible, but nobody is having conversations about Jesus outside the group.

Maybe a young believer in your group thinks being a Christ follower is mostly about attending, studying, and being cared for—because that’s all they’ve ever seen the group do.

If that’s your group, I’m not saying you’ve failed. I’m saying you’ve stopped short of something God still has for you.

Complacency is contagious.

But the opposite is true too.

Consistency creates courage.

Faithfulness fuels others.

When you deploy your faith, others realize: “I can do that too.” Your courage gives them permission to do the same.

What would our groups look like if they completed the mission?

I think it could look like something as simple as regularly asking one another:

“How are you deploying your faith this week?”

“What spiritual conversations are you having?”

“Where is God calling you to serve?”

Imagine groups praying by name for people who are far from God.

Imagine a group adopting a need in their neighborhood.

Imagine people sharing:

“I had a conversation with my coworker this week. Pray for me.”

That’s not abandoning Bible study, community, or care.

That’s completing the picture. It’s dropping that last piece into the the puzzle.

That’s gathering, growing. AND going.

I had breakfast with a friend of mine who is an optometrist. He was telling me about glaucoma—an eye disease that can cause blindness if it goes untreated. One of the dangerous things about it is that you can lose your sight little by little, around the edges, so slowly that you don’t even realize what’s happening. And he explained something that I can’t stop thinking about.

Among his own patients, he has never had anyone go blind who consistently treats it.

The treatment?

A tiny drop. Every day. Consistent. Intentional effort.

Even when it doesn’t feel like it’s doing anything.

Just a steady drop, day after day.

It works.

But some people don’t treat it.

They think:

“My eyesight is good enough.”

Maybe it’s not 20/20, it’s incomplete, but I’m alright.

And those are the people who can eventually lose their sight.

And I wonder: Might we be the same spiritually?

It happens around the edges. You don’t feel yourself stop caring. You just wake up one day and realize you haven’t in a while.

It happens by accident.

We slowly settle.

We stop having spiritual conversations.

We stop spending time with God.

We stop our spiritual rhythms and practices.

We stop praying for people who are far from God.

We stop serving.

We stop inviting.

We stop taking risks.

And because our lives are still pretty good, we think it’s OK. We believe we’re “good.”

But Remember: good isn’t always complete.

The answer isn’t one giant moment — it’s a tiny drop, like Reuben and Gad’s campaign.—lots of little moments.

For you, it may be the little, consistent acts of faithfulness.

One conversation.

One invitation.

One quiet time with God.

One prayer.

One act of service.

One step.

Day after day.

Week after week.

Because the mission isn’t completed in one big moment. And that is why we’re giving you opportunities to take your next step.

Don’t settle where you are. You’re not home yet.

Take the next step.

Maybe you’ve settled into church attendance.

It feels good. You like the music and the messages.

But you know you need more, to be known, to grow.

But joining a group feels intimidating. . . “I don’t want to talk to a bunch of people I don’t know.”

Because You’re scared, you think, “That’s too much. I’m alright. I’m good.”

But you know you’re incomplete.

Don’t settle.

If that’s you, this may be your moment.

There’s Good Land in front of you.

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Step into a group. Take the next step.

We also have some people here today who have settled into a small group.

You love your people. They care for you—like family.

You’re growing…

But you’re not going in all the ways He is calling you.

It’s good, but you know God has more.

It’s incomplete. Don’t settle.

Nobody reaches a point where they graduate out and get to ignore the call to: Make disciples.

Gather to grow, SO we can GO.

And if you’re already in a group, maybe it’s time to ask a different question.

Not just: “How can this group help us?” But: “How can God use us?”

Not just: “How are we growing?” But: “To whom are we going?”

Because we don’t get to arrive.

Reuben and Gad weren’t home yet. Neither are we. As long as we have breath in our lungs, we’re not finished.

Just because God has blessed you here, doesn’t mean He’s finished with you.

He’s not waiting for you to earn a place in His mission. He’s already made room for you in it.

Don’t settle for good.

Press on.

“Go and make disciples.”

Our neighbors.

The nations.

The next generation.

Develop your faith so you can deploy it.

Gather to grow…So you can go.

And don’t stop in good land…

When God is still calling you forward.

You’re not home yet.

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